Below is a list of books that you may find helpful as you navigate this process:
Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life (revised edition) by Abigail Trafford
Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD and Randi Kreger
Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Shared Custody Work by Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond by Patricia Evans
Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D. with Jean Coppock Staeheli
A few websites that you may also find helpful include:
North Carolina General Assembly Statutes [link to http://www.ncleg.net/gascripts/statutes/statutes.asp] All North Carolina statutes related to divorce, alimony and child support can be found on this website within Chapter 50.
The North Carolina Court System [link to www.nccourts.org] You can easily find the local rules, forms, court costs, etc. for your specific county on this website.
Orange County Register of Deeds [link to http://www.co.orange.nc.us/deeds/] This website provides information and documentation related to real estate transactions for property located in Orange County, North Carolina.
Chatham County Register of Deeds [link to http://www.chathamnc.org/Index.aspx?page=905] This website provides information and documentation related to real estate transactions for real property located in Chatham County, North Carolina.
North Carolina Child Support Guidelines [ link to https://nddhacts01.dhhs.state.nc.us/home.jsp?TargetScreen=WorkSheet.jsp] This website provides detailed information regarding the uniform presumptive guidelines used in North Carolina for determining the child support obligations of parents.
North Carolina Child Support Calculator [link to https://nddhacts01.dhhs.state.nc.us/home.jsp?TargetScreen=WorkSheet.jsp] This website allows you to calculate your respective child support obligation depending upon the physical custody arrangement of a child.