Resources

Below is a list of books that you may find helpful as you navigate this process:

Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life (revised edition) by Abigail Trafford

Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD and Randi Kreger

Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Shared Custody Work by Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.

The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond by Patricia Evans

Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D. with Jean Coppock Staeheli


A few websites that you may also find helpful include:

North Carolina General Assembly Statutes [link to http://www.ncleg.net/gascripts/statutes/statutes.asp] All North Carolina statutes related to divorce, alimony and child support can be found on this website within Chapter 50.

The North Carolina Court System [link to www.nccourts.org] You can easily find the local rules, forms, court costs, etc. for your specific county on this website.

Orange County Register of Deeds [link to http://www.co.orange.nc.us/deeds/] This website provides information and documentation related to real estate transactions for property located in Orange County, North Carolina.

Chatham County Register of Deeds [link to http://www.chathamnc.org/Index.aspx?page=905] This website provides information and documentation related to real estate transactions for real property located in Chatham County, North Carolina.

North Carolina Child Support Guidelines [ link to https://nddhacts01.dhhs.state.nc.us/home.jsp?TargetScreen=WorkSheet.jsp] This website provides detailed information regarding the uniform presumptive guidelines used in North Carolina for determining the child support obligations of parents.

North Carolina Child Support Calculator [link to  https://nddhacts01.dhhs.state.nc.us/home.jsp?TargetScreen=WorkSheet.jsp] This website allows you to calculate your respective child support obligation depending upon the physical custody arrangement of a child.